{"id":5716,"date":"2026-10-10T00:13:36","date_gmt":"2026-10-09T14:13:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/?p=5716"},"modified":"2026-10-10T00:13:37","modified_gmt":"2026-10-09T14:13:37","slug":"ssssssnake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/?p=5716","title":{"rendered":"ssssssnake."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nya special advisor ku aka laki ku nya, at least the snake is not in the grass anymore, it&#8217;s out in the open. and he&#8217;s (always) right. another sharp learning curve. well. not really. I figured it out many moons ago, but I guess I didn&#8217;t care enough to cut things off and also decided that they didn&#8217;t matter enough for me to call them out. but at the same time, I kept husnuzoning. mcm u friend zone bah.. tapi ni ku husnu-zoned. haha. I guess the two things can exist at the same time kan? mcm aku tau org atu sudah nada good intentions, tapi ku biarkan saja tapi at the same time I really hope I was wrong. but also like my husband, I&#8217;m also always right. even more than him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">right now i&#8217;m just concerned about a smear campaign. but that&#8217;s not for me to handle. I cannot control org lain punya actions. I cannot control what other people choose to say, how they choose to tell their stories or what version of me they choose to present to the world. I can only control my own actions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And for now, I&#8217;m choosing silence, distance and myself. not everything needs a rebuttal. I&#8217;m letting god take care of it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">thank you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nya special advisor ku aka laki ku nya, at least the snake is not in the grass anymore, it&#8217;s out in the open. and he&#8217;s (always) right. another sharp learning curve. well. not really. I figured it out many moons ago, but I guess I didn&#8217;t care enough to cut things off and also decided [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5716","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dailies"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5716","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5716"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5716\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5717,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5716\/revisions\/5717"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}