{"id":4598,"date":"2017-07-14T08:33:52","date_gmt":"2017-07-13T22:33:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/?p=4598"},"modified":"2017-09-24T04:28:36","modified_gmt":"2017-09-23T18:28:36","slug":"aggressively-opinionated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/?p=4598","title":{"rendered":"aggressively opinionated"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>i have a tendency to be aggressively opinionated. this is not a secret. i&#8217;ve even lost  a few friends because of it. some friendships are permanently broken but gratefully the ones that matter eventually came around and we&#8217;ve picked up the pieces to slowly accept each other again. <\/p>\n<p>Just so you know, the bluntness is never malicious and it&#8217;s always coming from a good place. I always find myself biting my tongue and keeping to the mantra of &#8220;not saying anything if you don&#8217;t have anything nice to say&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p>ive realised that my frankness is both my strength and weakness. not all appreciate it and im working on sugar coating my words a little bit better. i dont like to see people hurt. even if sebenarnya, actually nya, actualliest nya i mean well.<\/p>\n<p>anyway, turning 32 in a few weeks. planning a very colourful birthday MONTH. Will be doing a little bit of travelling (expecting CAKE at every single stop :P)  and hopefully i will also get some soul searching in the mix. <\/p>\n<p>Pretty content with life at the moment. Im neither overjoyed or unhappy .. but im ok. im somewhere in between. Alhamdulillah. I have to maintain this level of gratitude for everything that&#8217;s going well in my life. <\/p>\n<p>i hope everyone has been good too.<\/p>\n<p>smell ya later. <\/p>\n<p>kiss me.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>i have a tendency to be aggressively opinionated. this is not a secret. i&#8217;ve even lost a few friends because of it. some friendships are permanently broken but gratefully the ones that matter eventually came around and we&#8217;ve picked up the pieces to slowly accept each other again. Just so you know, the bluntness is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4598","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dailies"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4598","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4598"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4598\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4605,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4598\/revisions\/4605"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4598"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4598"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasmonroe.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4598"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}